Do you feel that sometimes people are just too hard on you? It could be your spouse, your superior or even a colleague at work. If only they treat you kindly life will be much easier?
Well, you can try 2 things.
One is very simple; just practise reciting " Ya Latiff" which is one of the 99 beautiful names of Allah s.w.t. which means The Ever Discreetly Gentle, Most Affectionate One.
The other is reciting verse 159 of Surah Ali Imran:
Which Means:
"And by the Mercy of Allah, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from you; so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allah's) Forgiveness for them, and consult them in the affairs, put your trust in Allah, certainly Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
If that is a bit too long for you, then you can shorten it to just :
فبما رحمة من الله لنت لهم
"And by the Mercy of Allah, you dealt with them gently."
Wallahu A'lam.
Malay version:
Adakah anda merasakan diri tertekan disebabkan pergaulan kasar dari mana-mana pihak? Pasangan anda, atau ketua anda atau teman sekerja? Sekiranya mereka berlembut dengan anda maka senanglah kehidupan anda?
Jika demikian, bolehlah anda amalkan salah satu dari dua perkara ini:
1) Amalkan wirid "Ya Latif" yang merupakan salah satu dari Nama-Nama Allah s.w.t. yang bermaksud:
"Yang Maha Lembut / Yang Maha Halus"
2) Amalkan ayat 159 dari Surah Ali Imran (seperti di atas) yang bermaksud:
"Sesungguhnya dengan rahmat daripada Allah, engkau bersikap lemah lembut kepada mereka, kerana sekiranya engkau bersikap kasar lagi keras hati tentu sekali mereka menjauhkan diri daripada mu. Maka maafkanlah mereka, dan bermusyawwarahlah dalam urusan itu. Apabila hati kamu telah nekad maka bertawakkallah kepada Allah (kerana) sesungguhnya Allah menyukai orang yang bertawakkal."
Sekiranya ayat ini terlalu panjang maka bolehlah dipendekkan kepada:
فبما رحمة من الله لنت لهم
Yang bermaksud:
"Sesungguhnya dengan rahmat daripada Allah, engkau bersikap lemah lembut kepada mereka."
Wallahu A'lam.
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